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things are life. good, i suppose. bad, not particularly. but a struggle none-the-less. i still really like my relationship but there are things i want different in my life. and yet, i am not sure how to keep all the things together. i do NOT…

if a friend comes to you and says "a coworker has made an unwelcome and inappropriate advance towards me that makes me very uncomfortable", that is all the info you need. the appropriate response is to be horrified for them. to tell them how sorry…

i need to not become frustrated with relationship issues. i think that means i need to say things early. of course, finding a time to express worrisome things is awkward. andreas and i tried talking about issues/feelings specifically on sunday afternoons. i am not sure…

i've been busy. sorry about that. i work a lot. and i spend a lot of time with kyle. and i try to still see my friends. i baked a coffee cake...literally, for my coworkers. busy. Kyle and i are playing house this week. his…

NRE is what makes poly hard. when you take on a new partner, everything is new so you want to put all your energy there. new is exciting! it also passes, and the key to making sure the primary relationship stays intact is to remember…