i've been busy. sorry about that. i work a lot. and i spend a lot of time with kyle. and i try to still see my friends. i baked a coffee cake...literally, for my coworkers. busy. Kyle and i are playing house this week. his…

NRE is what makes poly hard. when you take on a new partner, everything is new so you want to put all your energy there. new is exciting! it also passes, and the key to making sure the primary relationship stays intact is to remember…

i haven't consciously decided to date someone since my first boyfriend in high school. all the subsequent boys i dated (and married) started out as a casual thing. it is weird how liberating deciding to date someone is. i feel like it is ok to…

so, the boy is my friend, now, er, boyfriend, kyle. yep, the guy who used to live under my bed. he's graduated! just kidding. when i worked night shifts he slept in my bed. anyhow, i mentioned the "so besides the sex, we sort of…

so...this person is someone i have been friends with for quite sometime. my age (yeah!). it is odd going from good friends to "dating" because, besides sex and spending more time together, what is different? we still talk about the stuff we used to talk…