Welcome to the chronicle of my hair, Heather’s Hair.

tense conversations and cards

things are good. tonight was "jaws on the water". it was a blast! kyle and i accidentally slept for 14 hours last night (went to Total Unicorn then dropped donuts at this office, got to sleep at like 4am) and then sorta rushed to the…

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a lot has changed

i had a fortuitous conversation with a patient's sister and today i had an interview to become a SANE nurse. SANE stands for Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner. these nurse's work with sexual assault victims. they do the physical exam, but more so they support them…

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life grind.

things are life. good, i suppose. bad, not particularly. but a struggle none-the-less. i still really like my relationship but there are things i want different in my life. and yet, i am not sure how to keep all the things together. i do NOT…

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first fight

if a friend comes to you and says "a coworker has made an unwelcome and inappropriate advance towards me that makes me very uncomfortable", that is all the info you need. the appropriate response is to be horrified for them. to tell them how sorry…

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my therapist says...

i need to not become frustrated with relationship issues. i think that means i need to say things early. of course, finding a time to express worrisome things is awkward. andreas and i tried talking about issues/feelings specifically on sunday afternoons. i am not sure…

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